“It is pivotal to capture the child's voice. There are various ways to gain information on how they feel within their home, education and social environment so that we can support them to reach their potential, while understanding their vulnerabilities, strengths, needs and the risks.” – Social Worker at Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou.
Tamariki impacted by whānau incarceration experience an invisible sentence of stigma and isolation, yet our current justice system is not designed to see or hear them. Their needs, experiences, and voices often go unnoticed, leaving them without the recognition or support they deserve.
At Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou, we believe every child has the right to be heard. The voice of the child is the centre of everything that we do.
The Right to be Heard
The United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child states in Article 12 that:
“The child who is capable of forming his or her own views (has) the right to express those views freely in all matters affecting the child.”
Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou upholds this principle by ensuring that tamariki impacted by whānau incarceration are heard and supported to create positive futures for themselves. In 2010, we adopted the Children of Incarcerated Parents Bill of Rights, a framework that originated in the United States and has guided our child-centred practice.
In 2024, the rangatahi of Ngā Rangatira Mō Āpōpō - Leaders for Tomorrow revised this Bill of Rights to accurately represent their culture and realities in Aotearoa. The Bill of Rights for Tamariki Impacted by Whānau Incarceration aims to protect the rights of tamariki and rangatahi in a way that is accessible and informed by their lived experiences.
What does "The Voice of the Child" Mean?
The Voice of the Child refers to all forms of communication—verbal and nonverbal—that children use to express their opinions, experiences, and emotions. It is not just about listening; it is about truly understanding and valuing what tamariki share with us.
For Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou, this perspective is deeply embedded in our mahi. The Tamaiti Framework, or The Voice of the Child, guides every programme, decision, and interaction.
By starting with the child's perspective, we ensure that our support is not only effective but also embodies the value of rangatiratanga, or self-determination.
The social workers conduct ongoing assessments with tamariki and whānau, using a strengths-based approach that centres on their voices. This means:
Tamariki and rangatahi contribute to their own plans and assessments.
Needs and goals are identified with them, not for them.
Social workers walk alongside whānau, respecting their expertise in their own lives.
We acknowledge that trust and whānaungatanga take time. Our approach is never rushed; instead, it is built on genuine relationships and deep understanding.
“As a social worker, the voice of the child is central to how I support caregivers. I work closely with caregivers to understand how having a parent in prison affects the child, ensuring that their emotional and developmental needs are at the forefront. By guiding the caregiver in having open, age-appropriate conversations with the child, I help ensure the child’s voice is heard, even when the child might not directly share it.
This is crucial because children’s experiences in these situations are often complex and hard to express. By supporting caregivers in navigating these conversations, I can help ensure that children’s needs are addressed and that caregivers feel empowered to provide the right support. This ultimately helps foster a sense of security and resilience for the child, as well as strengthens the caregiver-child relationship. “
– Social Worker at Pillars.
Even before matching tamariki with a mentor, we take time to understand their interests, strengths, and aspirations. Every child is interviewed to ensure they have a say in shaping their mentoring journey. Their hopes and goals drive the connection, creating a meaningful experience.
Every child in Aotearoa deserves the opportunity to stride into the future with confidence, no matter their circumstances. But confidence grows when tamariki know they are valued, their perspectives matter, and they have a say in creating positive futures for themselves.
At Pillars Ka Pou Whakahou, we are committed to making this a reality—by listening and ensuring that the voice of the child is always at the heart of what we do.
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